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When Failure Was My Best Friend 

Escaping The Darkness And Finding The Light

Meet Dr. Cynthia Perry

Dr. Cynthia L. Perry spent more than fifteen years on the faculty of Edgewood College’s Department of Education, becoming the first African American to earn tenure in the School of Education. She went on to serve as Program Director of Early Childhood Education, where she oversaw curriculum development and taught courses in general education, special education, and early childhood pedagogy.

Empowering Educators

Dr. Cynthia equips teachers and parents with practical, faith-based strategies to support children affected by trauma and academic struggles.

Women’s Ministry Leadership

With deep spiritual commitment, Dr. Cynthia has led women's ministries across churches, impacting over 100 congregations through Converge Great Lakes.

Discover Your Path to Freedom

Break free from failure with Dr. Cynthia Perry’s transformative book.

Vision Statement

BreakFree Ministries with Dr. Cynthia Perry
“Breaking chains. Building faith. Walking in freedom.”
The goal is to lead individuals out of the bondage of sin and into the freedom of a Spirit-led life, where they can hear God’s voice clearly and walk in victory through faith, healing, and transformation.
Break Free Ministries is a clear, bold, and empowering vision grounded in faith, healing, and hope. Through spiritual development, community support, and biblical teachings, the ministry inspires women to overcome life’s challenges and walk confidently in their God-given purpose.

Global Speaker & Minister

Dr. Cynthia has spoken internationally in churches and conferences across the U.S., Africa, and beyond.

Scholar & Author

Her research and published work promote inclusion and spiritual growth through biblical education.

A legacy of leadership and empowerment

Academic Legacy

Dr. Cynthia holds an Ed.D. from Loyola University and has shaped future educators at Edgewood College.

Empowering Young Minds

She supported children facing trauma through her work as a teacher and educational consultant, helping them overcome challenges and thrive.

Prayer-Focused

As a member of Converge Worldwide's Prayer Commission, she emphasized spiritual growth through prayer.

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Ministry to Women

She has led women’s ministries across multiple churches, impacting over 100 congregations regionally.

Faith & Research

Her research has focused on prayer, overcoming strongholds and supporting children with ADHD in early childhood special education inclusion settings.

Resilient Journey

With 46 years of marriage and a new book release, her life reflects faith, endurance, and resilience.

REVIEWS / TESTIMONIAL

When Failure Was My Best Friend, by Dr. Cynthia Perry, is a heartfelt and inspiring guide for anyone battling self-doubt, shame, or inadequacy. Through her journey of overcoming failure and fear, Dr. Perry beautifully reveals the power of God's grace and the freedom to embrace our identity in Jesus. This book is a beacon of hope...

— Pastor Bernard Emerson, Regional President, Converge PacWest

This book is a pathway to healing and spiritual renewal... Dr. Perry guides the readers toward a new identity in Christ, empowering them to experience God's love and overcome life's challenges.

— Pastor James Ford Jr., President, James Ford Jr. Ministries

Dr. Cynthia Perry has authored a remarkable book... creating an experience that invites others to share in her journey while pursuing their own unique transformation.

— Pastor John K. Jenkins Sr., First Baptist of Glenarden, President, Converge Worldwide

As a local pastor, I have a high regard for her work... good encouragement for people who are struggling with strongholds and need to be set free.

— Dr. Lucious Fullwood, Senior Pastor, Bellevue Baptist Church

When Failure Was My Best Friend is the story of resilience... it is a welcome tool for spiritual breakthrough and spiritual formation.

— Dr. Ollie Watts Davis, Professor, University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign

Dr. Cynthia Perry has written a remarkable book... This book is not just for those who feel they have faced failure, but for anyone seeking to find hope, purpose, and courage through Christ.

— Dr. Deborah Gorton, Psychologist and Author of Embracing Uncomfortable

When Failure Was My Best Friend, by Dr. Cynthia Perry is a heartfelt and inspiring guide for anyone battling self-doubt, shame, or inadequacy. Through her journey of overcoming failure and fear, Dr. Perry beautifully reveals the power of God’s grace and the freedom to embrace our identity in Jesus. This book is a beacon of hope, showing readers that even in the darkest moments, God is always there to guide us toward healing, purpose, and transformation. When Failure Was My Best Friend is a must-read for anyone seeking spiritual healing, renewal, and a deeper understanding of God’s purpose in their lives. Dr. Perry’s journey out of darkness into the light of God’s grace will inspire, uplift, and encourage readers to step into the abundant life God has planned for them.

—Bernard Emerson, Regional President Converge PacWest

This book is a pathway to healing and spiritual renewal. It is biblically sound, very practical, and filled with Christlike compassion. This much-needed book offers real hope and the promise of victory in Jesus Christ to those struggling or struggling with their identity. Dr. Perry guides the readers toward a new identity in Christ, empowering them to experience God’s love and overcome life’s challenges. 2 Peter 3:18 - NIV - But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen

—Pastor James Ford Jr., President, James Ford Jr. Ministries Ministries Converge Worldwide

Enthusiastic accolades for When Failure Was My Best Friend by Dr. Cynthia Perry. Masterfully written, this document equips others with practical insights and tools for navigating the spiritual journey. With a skilled detective's persistence leading to solving a case and effectively using a parable to complement the narrative, Dr. Cynthia welcomes the reader to an inside view of her personal process of wholeness. Grounded in Christian Scripture and principles, her manuscript illustrates her journey and illuminates a practical pathway for others. When Failure Was My Best Friend is the story of resilience and a refusal to give up. It provides a method for developing Christlike character and spiritual maturity. Delivered as a narrative and workbook, it is a welcome tool for spiritual breakthrough and formation. Thank you, Dr. Cynthia. Brava!

—Dr. Ollie Watts Davis, Suzanne and William Allen Distinguished Professor in Music, University of Illinois Urbana–Champaign

I am the senior pastor of Bellevue Baptist Church in Chicago, Illinois, and I have known Dr. Cynthia Perry for many years. She has taught in our Adult Sunday School Department and has been our guest speaker at our women’s retreat. She has a good grasp of the Christian faith and can communicate relevant principles from the Scriptures in language that lay people in the church can understand. As a local pastor, I highly regard her work, her scholarship, and her partnership in ministry. God has given her much to share. I am delighted that she has chosen to print some of her scholarship's wealth. I am also pleased that she has decided to share some of her life stories. Her faithfulness to this task leaves a great treasure of information for believers struggling with past failures and needing some directions to follow in their quest for a new life. I was impressed by the variety of topics that she chose to cover and her willingness to address some personal struggles that Christians face on their journey to significance. This book provides much to consider for the reader. I recommend it as a valuable resource for one’s library and a good encouragement for people struggling with strongholds who need to be set free.

Lucious Fullwood, MDiv. and DMin., Senior Pastor Bellevue Baptist Church

Dr. Cynthia Perry has written a remarkable book grounded on her inspiring testimony of God’s ruthless pursuit to reclaim her identity from the deceptive stronghold of failure and fear. Rich with scriptural insight, When Failure Was My Best Friend invites readers to witness a journey of profound and enduring faith as Dr. Cynthia skillfully weaves her deeply personal story with biblical truths, creating an experience that invites others to share in her journey while pursuing their one unique transformation. Her insights are heartfelt and soul-stirring, encouraging every reader to uncover God’s purpose and the ultimate freedom it brings. This book is not just for those who feel they have faced failure, but for anyone seeking hope, purpose, and courage through Christ in the face of trials and traumas that threaten to steal the core of their worth and value. It is a must-read for anyone ready to break free from the weight of inadequacy and walk boldly in their God-given identity.

—Dr. Deborah Gorton, Psychologist Author of Embracing Uncomfortable, and Owner of Siv Counseling & Consultation

Dr. Cynthia Perry has authored a remarkable book based on her inspiring testimony of God's ruthless pursuit to reclaim her identity from the deceptive stronghold of failure and fear. Kich with scrip- tural insight, When Failure Was My Best Friend invites readers to witness a journey of profound and enduring faith as Dr. Cynthia skillfully weaves her deeply personal story with biblical truths, cre- ating an eLperience that invites others to share in her journey while pursuing their own unique transformation. ;er insights are heart- felt and soul stirring, encouraging every reader to uncover God's purpose and the ultimate freedom it brings. This book is not just for those who have faced failure, but for anyone seeking to xnd hope, purpose, and courage through Christ in the face of trials and traumas that threaten to steal the core of their worth and value. It is a must-read for anyone ready to break free from the weight of inadequacy and walk boldly in their God-given identity. In today's world, anLiety and fear of failure are constant barri- ers, even for believers. When Failure Was My Best Friend is both timely and necessary. Rilled with encouragement and practical ways to overcome the lies that hold us back, readers are compelled to confront false beliefs that prevent them from living victorious and purpose-driven lives. Through real-life eLamples, insights, and ac- tionable steps, author Cynthia Perry illustrates how failures can be our greatest teachers and can even become the path toward healing and growth. Ror individuals who are ready to break free from lim- itations and past failures, this book is a must-read. It is a reminder that our setbacks do not dexne us—rather, if we are willing to do the work, they can rexne us and draw us closer to a life that aligns with God's truth and purpose.

—Pastor John K. Jenkins Sr., Senior Pastor, First Baptist of Glenarden, Maryland; President, Converge Worldwide

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Welcome to Our Website!

Dear Visitor,

We are delighted to have you here and excited to introduce you to our inspiring book, “When Failure Was My Best Friend: Escaping the Darkness and Finding the Light.” This book offers an informative and practical guide to help you transform your life and achieve spiritual victory.

In “When Failure Was My Best Friend,” you will find valuable insights and strategies to:

  • IDENTIFY destructive beliefs and strongholds
  • UNCOVER the origins of self-defeating thoughts
  • DEVELOP a personalized action plan for spiritual victory
  • APPLY biblical strategies to renew your mind
  • ACTIVATE hope through God’s Word and the Holy Spirit

We invite you to embark on a transformative journey through the content of this book. As you read, ask God to reveal to you the areas of strongholds that may be holding you back from becoming all that He created you to be.

Thank you for visiting our website. We hope that “When Failure Was My Best Friend” will be a source of inspiration and empowerment for you.

Blessings,

Dr. Cynthia Perry