When Failure Was My Best Friend

Meet Dr. Cynthia Perry
Empowering Educators
Dr. Cynthia equips teachers and parents with practical, faith-based strategies to support children affected by trauma and academic struggles.
Women’s Ministry Leadership
With deep spiritual commitment, Dr. Cynthia has led women's ministries across churches, impacting over 100 congregations through Converge Great Lakes.
Discover Your Path to Freedom
Vision Statement
“Breaking chains. Building faith. Walking in freedom.”
Global Speaker & Minister
Dr. Cynthia has spoken internationally in churches and conferences across the U.S., Africa, and beyond.
Scholar & Author
Her research and published work promote inclusion and spiritual growth through biblical education.
A legacy of leadership and empowerment
Academic Legacy
Dr. Cynthia holds an Ed.D. from Loyola University and has shaped future educators at Edgewood College.
Empowering Young Minds
She supported children facing trauma through her work as a teacher and educational consultant, helping them overcome challenges and thrive.
Prayer-Focused
As a member of Converge Worldwide's Prayer Commission, she emphasized spiritual growth through prayer.

Ministry to Women
She has led women’s ministries across multiple churches, impacting over 100 congregations regionally.
Faith & Research
Her research has focused on prayer, overcoming strongholds and supporting children with ADHD in early childhood special education inclusion settings.
Resilient Journey
With 46 years of marriage and a new book release, her life reflects faith, endurance, and resilience.
REVIEWS / TESTIMONIAL
When Failure Was My Best Friend, by Dr. Cynthia Perry, is a heartfelt and inspiring guide for anyone battling self-doubt, shame, or inadequacy. Through her journey of overcoming failure and fear, Dr. Perry beautifully reveals the power of God's grace and the freedom to embrace our identity in Jesus. This book is a beacon of hope...
This book is a pathway to healing and spiritual renewal... Dr. Perry guides the readers toward a new identity in Christ, empowering them to experience God's love and overcome life's challenges.
Dr. Cynthia Perry has authored a remarkable book... creating an experience that invites others to share in her journey while pursuing their own unique transformation.
As a local pastor, I have a high regard for her work... good encouragement for people who are struggling with strongholds and need to be set free.
When Failure Was My Best Friend is the story of resilience... it is a welcome tool for spiritual breakthrough and spiritual formation.
Dr. Cynthia Perry has written a remarkable book... This book is not just for those who feel they have faced failure, but for anyone seeking to find hope, purpose, and courage through Christ.
When Failure Was My Best Friend, by Dr. Cynthia Perry is a heartfelt and inspiring guide for anyone battling self-doubt, shame, or inadequacy. Through her journey of overcoming failure and fear, Dr. Perry beautifully reveals the power of God’s grace and the freedom to embrace our identity in Jesus. This book is a beacon of hope, showing readers that even in the darkest moments, God is always there to guide us toward healing, purpose, and transformation. When Failure Was My Best Friend is a must-read for anyone seeking spiritual healing, renewal, and a deeper understanding of God’s purpose in their lives. Dr. Perry’s journey out of darkness into the light of God’s grace will inspire, uplift, and encourage readers to step into the abundant life God has planned for them.
This book is a pathway to healing and spiritual renewal. It is biblically sound, very practical, and filled with Christlike compassion. This much-needed book offers real hope and the promise of victory in Jesus Christ to those struggling or struggling with their identity. Dr. Perry guides the readers toward a new identity in Christ, empowering them to experience God’s love and overcome life’s challenges. 2 Peter 3:18 - NIV - But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen
Enthusiastic accolades for When Failure Was My Best Friend by Dr. Cynthia Perry. Masterfully written, this document equips others with practical insights and tools for navigating the spiritual journey. With a skilled detective's persistence leading to solving a case and effectively using a parable to complement the narrative, Dr. Cynthia welcomes the reader to an inside view of her personal process of wholeness. Grounded in Christian Scripture and principles, her manuscript illustrates her journey and illuminates a practical pathway for others. When Failure Was My Best Friend is the story of resilience and a refusal to give up. It provides a method for developing Christlike character and spiritual maturity. Delivered as a narrative and workbook, it is a welcome tool for spiritual breakthrough and formation. Thank you, Dr. Cynthia. Brava!
I am the senior pastor of Bellevue Baptist Church in Chicago, Illinois, and I have known Dr. Cynthia Perry for many years. She has taught in our Adult Sunday School Department and has been our guest speaker at our women’s retreat. She has a good grasp of the Christian faith and can communicate relevant principles from the Scriptures in language that lay people in the church can understand. As a local pastor, I highly regard her work, her scholarship, and her partnership in ministry. God has given her much to share. I am delighted that she has chosen to print some of her scholarship's wealth. I am also pleased that she has decided to share some of her life stories. Her faithfulness to this task leaves a great treasure of information for believers struggling with past failures and needing some directions to follow in their quest for a new life. I was impressed by the variety of topics that she chose to cover and her willingness to address some personal struggles that Christians face on their journey to significance. This book provides much to consider for the reader. I recommend it as a valuable resource for one’s library and a good encouragement for people struggling with strongholds who need to be set free.
Dr. Cynthia Perry has written a remarkable book grounded on her inspiring testimony of God’s ruthless pursuit to reclaim her identity from the deceptive stronghold of failure and fear. Rich with scriptural insight, When Failure Was My Best Friend invites readers to witness a journey of profound and enduring faith as Dr. Cynthia skillfully weaves her deeply personal story with biblical truths, creating an experience that invites others to share in her journey while pursuing their one unique transformation. Her insights are heartfelt and soul-stirring, encouraging every reader to uncover God’s purpose and the ultimate freedom it brings. This book is not just for those who feel they have faced failure, but for anyone seeking hope, purpose, and courage through Christ in the face of trials and traumas that threaten to steal the core of their worth and value. It is a must-read for anyone ready to break free from the weight of inadequacy and walk boldly in their God-given identity.
Dr. Cynthia Perry has authored a remarkable book based on her inspiring testimony of God's ruthless pursuit to reclaim her identity from the deceptive stronghold of failure and fear. Kich with scrip- tural insight, When Failure Was My Best Friend invites readers to witness a journey of profound and enduring faith as Dr. Cynthia skillfully weaves her deeply personal story with biblical truths, cre- ating an eLperience that invites others to share in her journey while pursuing their own unique transformation. ;er insights are heart- felt and soul stirring, encouraging every reader to uncover God's purpose and the ultimate freedom it brings. This book is not just for those who have faced failure, but for anyone seeking to xnd hope, purpose, and courage through Christ in the face of trials and traumas that threaten to steal the core of their worth and value. It is a must-read for anyone ready to break free from the weight of inadequacy and walk boldly in their God-given identity. In today's world, anLiety and fear of failure are constant barri- ers, even for believers. When Failure Was My Best Friend is both timely and necessary. Rilled with encouragement and practical ways to overcome the lies that hold us back, readers are compelled to confront false beliefs that prevent them from living victorious and purpose-driven lives. Through real-life eLamples, insights, and ac- tionable steps, author Cynthia Perry illustrates how failures can be our greatest teachers and can even become the path toward healing and growth. Ror individuals who are ready to break free from lim- itations and past failures, this book is a must-read. It is a reminder that our setbacks do not dexne us—rather, if we are willing to do the work, they can rexne us and draw us closer to a life that aligns with God's truth and purpose.
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